Almost every child who comes into the visitor center, where I
work, looks absolutely fed up with their parents. Already exhausted from
whatever transportation it took to get here in the first place. They walk in
with tired eyes, dressed in various colors with each hair put in its place.
Some even sporting sunglasses until the very moment they have to interact with
another person. Secretly, I am sure, most of the students are excited to visit
campus; but the attachment of overexcited parents helps to remind them to seem
cool and collected. Meanwhile each adult is buzzing with enthusiasm. The smile
stretches from cheek to cheek and they can’t wait to walk around the campus.
They wear bright red shirts donning whatever wildcat gear they could collect
and bright running shoes. The mother is usually more excited but from time to
time I get a dad in who is glowing with pride for his child. They rush around
the center, some with questions about food or housing, and others curious about
the social aspects their children will get into. They are grabbing various
colored magazine and flyers, shouting for their child to come look all the
while asking for a bag to tote all this new material in. Meanwhile the child
usually gives their parent a look of utter embarrassment. Some even refuse to
let their elders speak from that point. Simply pushing in front and asking all
the questions themselves. These questions tend to involve sports, classes,
clubs, and of course the social aspect. Either way by the time they choose to leave the child
reluctantly drags their feet out the door, mentally preparing for a day
schlepping around campus with the only people in the world with the most likely
to embarrass them.
I found this observation of high school students touring the campus interesting. When I first toured the campus, I noticed several future wildcats were filled with excitement while strolling around the UA. I definitely see these kids feeling embarrassed by their parents, but for the most part they appear eager to move on and live on their own. One aspect that I certainly remember while touring the campus was the obnoxiously intense amount of wildcat obsessing pride that parents had.
ReplyDeleteAs the second Wildcat child in my family, the described embarrassments and parental harassment is something I luckily didn't receive. What I thought was universally true is the way new students "seem cool and collected" when they first get onto campus. There's a universal "cool card" seniors seem to get right out of high school... Cool people watching.
ReplyDeleteThis made me laugh because this is basically how my first visit went, which I can remember very well still since I'm a freshman. Moms have a right to be that way, but it does change the way you act during that trip. Love my parents, despite their stereotypical enthusiasm, and can relate to the attempt to be "cool and collected", though that is really not my forte.
ReplyDelete